A colleague and I were chatting about social emotional learning (SEL) and its significance to our work. We were musing about how we might help folks see SEL as not just another thing on their plate. SEL is not an item we slot in for an hour each day. It is the foundation for our work. It is the plate.
Essential conditions for social emotional learning
We know that social emotional learning is teachable and should be a priority of classrooms, schools and communities. If we start with the end in mind, we know the essential conditions for learning and growth mindset. We understand what teachers and learners need to be able to tackle academic challenges and for SEL to be effective.
The well-being of administrators, teachers and learners needs to be promoted in the context of a compassionate, caring and supportive school. So why now? We know that this current context is one, like no other, where we need to constantly focus on our learners’ health and well-being.
- How can we be effective in creating a compassionate, caring and supportive context in our classrooms?
- How can we use the Hāpara Instructional Suite to support the culture we are building in our classroom?
- How do we create opportunities for learner voices to lead and shape the discussion?
Last week, as I worked with a group of teachers, we explored how we might create opportunities to hear from learners about their well-being in a meaningful way. One of the teachers shared that she takes time to ask the questions, “How are you doing today? How can we (the class) help support you? What are things that are going really well in your learning?”
As we continued the conversation, I asked the question, “How do you know that your students are providing authentic answers to your questions and are not providing compliance comments?” The group wasn’t sure.
Authentic voices in the foundation of SEL
I shared a story with them. A team that I was leading was committed to self-care. We started each meeting sharing our self-care journey to be accountable to each other and to ensure that we were in fact, engaging in self-care.
The first time we shared as a group it was authentic, honest and empowering. By our third meeting, I noticed that sharing was much quicker. Folks had a quick/prepared answer and we had lost the authenticity and meaning of the first share.
Taking a page from Angela Stockman and her work with “loose parts,” we spread bits and bobs out on the table, and then I asked each member to create a representation of how they were doing with the loose parts.
We, for the second time in the meeting, took turns sharing. This was much more authentic, tear-filled and meaningful. One of our teammates bravely shared that she wasn’t doing well. She could hide behind our protocol and give a quick self-care report. However, when the script was flipped, she was forced to share authentically and face how she was really doing.
The takeaway for me was that for us to stay authentic we cannot create a process that folks can hide behind.
The takeaway for our group was to consider ways to establish the norm for learner voice in the foundation of their SEL, but not to create processes in our classrooms that create compliance. What might this look like?
Come to class tomorrow with a song title that best describes how you are feeling about adding fractions.
I am excited to hear from you tomorrow about how you are planning to show what you know, understand and can do in relation to our dilemma about equity in our class discussions.
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